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Why we coach self-belief before skills

Kick Cymru coaching team ·

At this age, how a child feels about trying something new matters more than how well they kick. So every game we plan has two goals. One is a football skill. The other is a feeling.

The four feelings

  • “I can do it.” New things stop feeling scary.
  • “I can try again.” Mistakes become part of the game.
  • “I’m part of a team.” Making friends and cheering others on.
  • “I’m proud of me.” Confidence they carry into nursery and school.

What it looks like on the pitch

Kicking a ball for the first time. Falling over and getting back up. Passing to a friend. Scoring in front of everyone.

Why it works

Children who feel safe are braver, and braver children try more, learn more and enjoy it more. The skills follow. We plan each month’s programme around these feelings, and the sticker at the end of the month is a way of saying “look how far you’ve come.”

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