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When your child doesn’t want to join in

Kick Cymru coaching team ·

Lots of 2 to 5 year olds hang back at their first sessions. That’s normal, and it doesn’t mean they won’t enjoy football.

What we do

  • We let children watch from the touchline with a grown-up for as long as they need.
  • We invite, never push. “Would you like to roar like a dragon?” works better than “Go on, join in.”
  • We give every child a small job, like carrying a cone or choosing the next game.

What you can do

  • Stay close at the start and step back a little more each week.
  • Talk about what will happen before you arrive.
  • Celebrate small wins. Standing on the pitch counts.

Self-belief grows from lots of small moments where a child feels safe and then feels brave.

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